Nanny Cam Needed

Zoe's first day back at daycare yesterday, without her soother. How is it that her daycare worker says she napped for an hour no problems when it takes me a half hour to get her down in the mornings? I need a nanny cam to see what goes on there!! Today, mind you, she wouldn't nap at all - rocked in my arms for 20 minutes, cried while I was in the shower for 10 minutes and then proceeded to get up and eat a big bowl of chicken noodle soup. Now I know she'll crash for her worker today no problem of course - is she cutting out her morning naps because the soother is gone now? Will we ever be back to a two-nap routine? I know life with kids is a seris of changes, breaking of habits and learning new skills but could they at least cease teething while the big changes happen??!!!